Nov 27, 2009

How the Fcuk can You be Scared of Love?!

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Sometimes I wonder what I would answer if my friends asked me if I was in love with him. Now, they would never question because I'm really good at hiding my feelings due to years of practice. But IF.

"I don't know" I might say. "I'll admit that there is a certain tension between him and me that I don't feel I have with anyone else." Then, after a moment of thought, I might continue: "But, what I do know is that sometimes I want to stroke his back so bad I can't barely stand it, and sometimes I make things on purpose just so I can be near him. What I also do know, is that I'm scared. So awfully scared."

The ting is that I don't want to feel anything. At all. But sometimes the feelings attack me so hard I can't ignore them anymore. They push and push and push, until they finally come through, and then, usually, I run. I can't bear to deal with them, and I certainly can't deal with the feelings that comes after. When you've been hurt. And you always get hurt.

I never let anyone in. It takes years of good behaviour to make me trust a person fully. Much because I've been let down. Hard. I've poured my heart out to people who only stomped it and threw it away. Such things hurt. And leave marks. So, in many many years I've never let myself feel anything for anyone, I've run when I couldn't ignore the feelings anymore. I've run so awfully much, in such an awful long time, and I'm so awfully tired.

So, this time, I shave sworn to myself to stay put, to not run from them. The feelings that make me want him to hold me. The feelings that, when he looks at me in a certain way, are so overwhelming that it takes all of my self-restraint to not move over and kiss him full on the mouth. The feelings that makes me pee myself out of fear.

I really don't know what to do. People tell me loving someone is the greatest thing in life, but I know how you feel when you get hurt, and I know running is easy and it spares your feelings, and... And I'm babbling. I always do when I'm scared. And I'm so awfully scared right now.

How the fuck can you be scared of love? I truly must be an idiot.

-S

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I found this on Le Love as well. Such an awesome and sincere blog. From all over the world really. And awesome pics included. But seriously... think about these words for a second. Do you do the same thing? I do. Sort of. And I am a master at hiding what I really feel. Nobody really knows me in that sense. And once someone starts breaking down my walls and seeing through my pretenses, I want to run as well. It's scary!! But for once it feels like I'm the verge of speaking VERY truthfully when I say I'M IN LOVE. I really am. And I don't WANT to run anymore. I just want to run to him. That's good right?


4 comments:

Daffy said...

Yes...its a good thing

XOXO

Andhari said...

Good for you!:) Do what makes you happy.

Maryx said...

=D Thanx Girls

kys said...

Go for it!